Like the rings of a tree, every child’s story holds layers of experience. Like wildflowers, they each bloom in their own time and way.

We cannot turn an apple tree into a cherry tree, and we wouldn’t want to. Our job is to honor each child’s roots, respect their growth, and provide the sunlight, water, and care they need to flourish. Here, therapy is never about “fixing.” It’s about creating space for children to feel safe, seen, and supported—so they can grow into their authentic selves.

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Hi, I’m Erin

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Erin Forward, MSP, CCC-SLP, CLC

Speech Therapist, Feeding Specialist, and Certified Lactation Counselor

I’ve dedicated my career to supporting children and families through some of their most challenging (and most meaningful) moments. Before moving into private practice, I worked at a renowned Children’s Hospital, specializing in pediatric feeding and swallowing disorders, early language development, AAC, and trauma-informed care for medically complex children. Along the way, I’ve completed advanced training as a DIR®Floortime Expert Provider and TBRI®-Trained Practitioner. In 2021, I was honored with ASHA’s Distinguished Early Career Professional Certificate for my dedication to this work, and I continue to present at national conferences on feeding, trauma-informed care, and play-based therapy.

My favorite part of what I do is getting to know children and families, learning from them, and walking alongside them as they grow. I would be honored to get to know you, too!
— Erin Forward
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The metaphor I like to use when talking about trauma-informed and neurodiversity-affirming care relates to biodiversity. Specifically, "you can't turn an apple tree into a cherry tree."

Previous philosophies of therapy that were not neurodiversity-affirming or trauma-informed focused on changing the child and the family to make them more "neurotypical." We know now the goal is not to change the child, but to help them thrive in an environment that may not be set up for them.

When we meet a child, we do not know who exactly they are going to be. The seed is planted and they are growing, but we cannot see the fruit yet, unless we help them to thrive. As clinicians, we have the privilege to learn from a child and family about who they want to be and to work to understand them.

The roots of the tree I deem a child's genetics, medical etiologies, their individual differences. We have to work to understand the roots to develop the best plan of care for them. The rings of the tree, although we cannot see them, are their past experiences and trauma. No child or family owes us their story, but we need to assume trauma has occurred when working with the children we work with. ​​We also know that every tree needs different sunlight, water, fertilizer to thrive.

Our job is then to figure out what support and accommodations a child needs to interact in the world the way they want to. It is with this support that the child can grow into their authentic self.

You Can't Turn an Apple Tree into a Cherry Tree